Wednesday, June 1, 2011

OUR HOSPICE AT HOME

Hi everyone...thanks as always for keeping in touch - your emails, calls, texts and notes are always appreciated - I'm sorry that I haven't been able to answer them. The past few weeks have become increasingly difficult for us as Dallas has suffered some major setbacks. A couple of weeks ago he had his first ride in an ambulance because he had a seizure and was having trouble breathing. He was diagnosed with pneumonia and was put on some anti-seizure medication which has thankfully lessened the intensity of his seizures. Because his immune system is so compromised he has also developed a painful case of shingles. Unfortunately, over the last several weeks Dallas has quickly moved from cane to wheelchair and now must be fully assisted whenever he moves out of his favourite chair.


As a family we continue to try and roll with the punches and work together to keep Dallas as comfortable as possible. Dallas was always been very determined to stay out the hospital so with the help of our medical team we have a hospice at home. Dallas can't take his medicine orally anymore so the Palliative Care Team have set up IV lines so that the boys and I can administer the meds that keep him comfortable. Today a hospital bed will replace Dallas's lazy boy chair and homecare staff will be here daily to look after his needs. Marcus and Heather have moved in as well and our hope is that Dallas knows he is constantly surrounded by the love of his family.


Thank you for your prayers and positive thoughts. We need them more than ever now. More later...


Love,

Patty

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Patty and family
I am so incredibly sad to hear the news about Dallas. He fought a damned good fight.
He is now out of pain, and hopefully at peace.
I know it has been a rough couple of years for you all. May you now find some peace for yourselves.
Sheila

Lawrence & Judy said...

Dear Patty; Our hearts breaks for you. Over the past couple of years you have been in our thoughts & prayers. Now more than ever Patty, we wish you peace. The next while will be very difficult for you but thankfully you are surrounded by a team of Love. Know that we are there with you in thought & friendship. Lawrence & Judy

Anonymous said...

Dallas, Patty and Family,

So disheartening to hear of the escalating dificulties that Dallas is having. It is no doubt a comfort to have the boys and Heather there with you. Thinking of you.......Barry and Linda

Nikki said...

Dear Patty, I read your most recent posts. It was my first time seeing your blog. The blog hit home for me because my grandfather has terminal cancer and is fighting now. I saw that Dallas went through alot of the same things my grandpa is dealing with right now. In all honesty, I am terrified of what's to come. I'm doing my best to cope though. I'm so very sorry for your loss. You are never alone. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts. ~Nikki